ABEOKUTA – Modupe Fatimah Ashimolowo, a 36-year-old woman from Lafenwa community in Ogun State has become the target of ridicule, harassment, and death threats after her husband divorced her for being a lesbian.
According to sources close to the family, Modupe’s husband, Amoo Wande discovered her sexual orientation and promptly ended their marriage in February 24, 2023, citing religious and cultural reasons.
However, the divorce was only the beginning of Modupe’s troubles.
It was gathered that there was agitation and protests from residents of the Aje Community, Lafenwa, Abeokuta, a highly populated part of Ogun State and one of the ancient towns that accommodate people from all walks of life.
The community, where homosexuality is deeply frowned upon, has turned against Modupe, subjecting her to verbal abuse, intimidation, and even death threats.
It was gathered that the commotion began when a neighbour caught Modupe having sex with her bi-sexual partner identified as Sharon Nwosu at her private residence within the community.
According to eyewitnesses, emotions ran high as word spread rapidly throughout the community, triggering a swift and intense reaction from a segment of the population.
A mob quickly gathered outside the residence where the alleged incident occurred, chanting slogans and demanding justice. Amidst the uproar, the atmosphere grew increasingly charged with accusations and condemnations directed towards the individual involved.
Stones were hurled at windows, and attempts were made to forcibly enter the premises.
It was gathered that, Modupe was injured during the melee and was immediately rushed to the state hospital, Ijaiye in Abeokuta.
Our correspondent reliably gathered that the reported case has led the entire community to consider expelling individuals involved in the alleged act.
Speaking on condition of anonymity due to security concerns, some residents disclosed that this incident was not the first time such behaviour had been sensed in their community.
They cited previous instances where similar suspicions arose but lacked concrete proof.
The residents expressed relief that tangible evidence had emerged, noting that the discovery of what they perceive as compelling evidence has galvanised community members into considering drastic actions, including expulsion of those implicated in the alleged act.
One of the residents simply identified as Oluwatosin said, “I was so surprised when Musa broke out the news about Modupe and Sharon.
“The act being displayed is not only barbaric but also sinful.”
It was gathered that Modupe’s family also distanced themselves from her, fearing backlash from their neighbors and friends.
Speaking from hideout, Modupe narrated her ordeal, explaining that the incident was the most terrible situation of her life.
“It’s like I’m living in a nightmare,” Modupe said in an interview.
“I can’t go outside without people pointing fingers at me or calling me names. I’ve even received messages telling me to leave the community or face the consequences.”
Modupe’s situation has become so dire that she fears for her life. She has reported the threats to the authorities, but so far, no action has been taken.
“I just want to live my life in peace,” Modupe said.
“I don’t want to be judged or persecuted for who I am. I just want to be accepted.”
Human rights activists have condemned the persecution of Modupe, calling it a clear violation of her rights to freedom of expression and identity.
“This is a classic case of discrimination and persecution,” said a spokesperson for a local LGBTQ+ rights group.
“We demand that the authorities take immediate action to protect Modupe’s life and ensure her safety.”
“We need to create a society where everyone can live without fear of persecution,” said a human rights activist. “Modupe’s story is a wake-up call for all of us to do better.”
In 2014, the Same-Sex Marriage (Prohibition) Act became law in Nigeria, and a new 14-year prison sentence was introduced for anyone caught entering into a same-sex marriage contract or civil union.
It also criminalised public displays of affection between same-sex couples, imposing a 10-year prison sentence on those who “directly or indirectly make [a] public show of [a] same-sex amorous relationship”.
It banned gay clubs, introducing a 10-year prison sentence for anyone who registers, operates, or participates in gay clubs, societies, and organisations, including supporters of those groups.
The passing of the law had widespread support, according to surveys, and meant Nigeria had some of the strictest laws against homosexuality in Africa.
The new law, according to a report by Human Rights Watch “officially authorised abuses against LGBT people, effectively making a bad situation worse”.
In 2014, media reports of violence, mob justice and extortion against LGBT people were common and activists say there has since been an explosion in kito cases since then.
